Give More of Yourself

For this post I wanted to talk about serving in a church community. 

I’d like to say that at a Christian University like Cal Baptist, it is a common act. Many spend part of their first year, as a student, visiting churches. 

After becoming a member, they typically choose a ministry to serve in. 

Some, however, spend a lot of their time church hopping or simply attending.

I attend Sandals church in Riverside, Calif. and I serve in the worship band and communications team. I volunteer at least once a month, lending my singing voice for the weekend. I recently started attending Sandals, and I didn’t really know too many people there (because it’s a big church) to begin with. 

Last weekend I was there rehearsing, singing, and getting to know those who attend and serve. I enjoyed my time so much. Serving was a breath of fresh air. I got so much out of my time, and I kept thinking, “Why doesn’t everyone serve in a church?” 

Later, I sat down and came up with 4 reasons (not in a particular order) as to why people should serve at their church rather than just attend. Hopefully this encourages someone to get connected to a church. 

Your gift for His glory 

God has given everyone a specific gift. We, as believers are to use it for His glory. We are to do with our gifts whatever points to Him. 

The bible tells us in 1 Peter 4:10 (ESV), “As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies—in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ.” 

Building those bridges 

When you serve at a church you build relationships with those serving alongside you. 

You will begin to notice that those people that surround you will become your family and your support. 

Two weekends ago I probably spent a total of 14 hours at Sandals. I was around the same people for those hours, and I can say that relationships have developed and with confidence say that they will continue to develop as I serve.

The best way to connect with people at a big church is to invest your time. No way will you build relationships if you simply attend a service and go home.

Some of my closest friends, people that I even consider my family, have come from friendships I made while serving at a church. 

Serving to learn

Serving for the experience; when you use the talents that God has given you, you develop your skills. This is important for a college student (or anyone in that matter). The church can be a great field to put to practice what is learned in school. 

For example, if you’re studying graphic design, use that gift to design a logo for your small group, or to design the weekly announcements.

Not only that, but some churches offer internships where you can use your skills in your particular major, network with those around you, and build your resume. 

The hand of God

One of the biggest blessings that comes with serving, at least for me, has been seeing the work of God first hand. Christ wants us, as believers, to be part of the miracles that come to place in His temple.  God seeks to show us more of himself in order to understand who He is. Through serving, we enable Him to do His work through us. 

 

 

 

Let Me Count the Ways

You know, I woke up this morning questioning what I believe in and live for…

Believe me, I gasped too..

Sometimes when it’s hard to love you have to remind yourself of why you love (them) in the first place. I took all of this morning and most of the afternoon to list the things that have made me surrender my life to the man upstairs (I’m talking about God, friends).

Here are some of the reasons why I love and strive to love God with my entire being:

Jesus is the only one who can satisfy.

It’s true. (These are all things that apply to me)  Friends, family, adventures, movies, relationships, reading, church, singing, traveling, school, money, clothes, cars, food, exercise, and hair do not come close to bringing me as much joy and peace as being in the presence of God has. I can confidently say that nothing else (even the things not listed) will ever satisfy my soul. All those things listed are not bad things, they bring a sense of momentary satisfaction, but then they’re gone, and they leave me wanting more, which leads me to my next point…

God is everlasting

Within that there are many implications. Not only is He omnipresent, He is sovereign. God will never fail me, He will never bring me momentary satisfaction because he will not leave me. 

God is always faithful 

In His word, God promises to never leave us nor forsake us. Just like Abraham spoke to Israel saying “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” Moses was leaving the Israelites, his life was coming to an end. He, however, assured them that Christ would never leave them.

Another great thing too is that no matter how many times you fail Him, he will not give up on you. God will always be there with open arms to receive you and to love on you.

God forgives

Just as the song says, “Jesus paid it all, all to Him I owe. Sin had left a crimson stain, He washed it white as snow.”

You know what that means?  He has forgiven us! Completely! And His mercies are new every morning, meaning that He wipes our slate clean every day. God doesn’t hold grudges, He offers us forgiveness. You can always count on his mercy and grace.

God is loving

I have never met and never will meet someone as loving as Christ. Not only did He sacrifice His son to save me in my wickedness and stubbornness, He has the best interest for me. He cares about my passions, feelings, ideas, and desires. Even though he requires that I surrender myself completely to Him, He treats me like a princess. I am His daughter who He wants to teach and please. This blows my mind! I always saw God kind of like a dictator bossing me around to live life a certain way.. But what I have learned recently is that God wants the glory, and rightly so, He deserves it. I’m so thankful to know that I am loved by Him, regardless of my selfishness and sin.

Christians on Social Media

What should we as Christians be posting on the social media… or better yet, what shouldn’t we be posting on the social media? This post is ALL personal opinion. Some of you may or may not agree, and that’s okay… I just thought I would decipher for myself what I don’t want to be posting on the media, especially when I have the privilege of representing Christ with the way I live my life.

I came up with 3 main things

Don’t Post…

1. Selfies…. all the time….

Ok, now, I know some girls may see this and cringe at me for being brutally honest about how much I don’t like following my lady friends who post selfies more than once a week… To me, it seems a little vain, maybe attention seeking? To post selfies of yourself looking really pretty, and then tagging it with a bible verse.. I just don’t see the point.

2. How angry something makes you..

I see a lot of the people who complain via the social web about their family, waitresses, professors, bosses, tenant, neighbor, friend, etc. You get the gist.. The social media is not meant to be a place to share your emotions in that matter, nothing good EVER comes out from sharing your frustrations. Take a look at

James 1:19-20 (NIV)

“My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,  for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.”

3. Profanity

Seriously, I’ve seen this from people. I always think, “I wonder if they realize future employers look at what you’ve posted.” Also, what kind of message is this sending to people, the fact that we allow ourselves to be mediocre with our beliefs? There are a lot of things that fall into this category, not just cuss words. Think about it.

Ephesians 4:29 (ESV) says,

“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”

7 is a lucky number

Summer in the city of Riverside

Summer in the city of Riverside

Seven months have gone by since the start of the year… and each month was but a hop into the future. Days went by rapidly, so savoring my time has been a stretch. Regardless, there is plenty that I have learned. These months have been a life-changing journey full of wonderment, opportunity, and optimism. So far this year I have finished the biggest project of my life, completed my undergrad degree with Summa Cum Laude honors, traveled to New York and San Francisco, gotten three new jobs, left two of my jobs, moved out of my four year community, moved into an apartment with roommates, renewed my Disneyland pass, ran a 5k (it was a long time coming), started lifting weights, built strong and lasting relationships with people, got into a relationship, started graduate school, began paying ALL of my bills (no longer dependent on the parents), said some goodbyes and volunteered at my church more often. From all of the goodness listed above, there are 7 key things that I have learned: (I’m not very good at expressing my thoughts in any matter, so bare with me)

1. I am selfish  Boy oh boy is that hard to admit. Change can make you hungry. Hungry for success, pride, attention, ambition, comfort, knowledge, respect, entitlement and rights. All of these things were things that I was in pursuit of. I wanted to find myself in a place where I was living comfortably, “serving” Jesus from my backyard. I was seeking to be served by others, I wanted them to love on me the way that I felt entitled to be loved on.

2. God will do whatever is takes to mold you  Yup, he will. Especially if you allow him to. A couple of months back I prayed the boldest prayer of my life. I remember saying, ” Lord, do whatever it takes to shape me to be the person that you want me to be.” He has done just that. Christ has wrecked me, loved on me, and saved me, and it has all been TOTALLY WORTH IT. I have never felt closer to Christ than I do now. I have learned so much about Him and from Him.

3.People are the children of God So I must treat them like it! I need to love, serve, forgive and respect those around me, and that means EVERYONE. I am learning to put others before I consider myself in every situation. This idea isn’t easy. There are many times where I want to tell people how I really feel, I don’t want to consider them at all, but that’s not what I am called to do, God has called me to love on people.

4Budgeting & saving is crucial Seriously, with all of the bills you have to pay, if you don’t budget, you’ll be living pay check to pay check, and that my friends, is a really uncomfortable situation. Therefore, invest time in budgeting. I use this app called “Mint” it’s is really helpful and safe to use! Also, if you don’t have a saving account, you should!

5The Holy Spirit speaks This is probably going to sound weird to a lot of you, but lately one of my prayers has been that God would speak to me throughout the day, with the hopes of being completely led by Him. Well, it has happened, I’ve felt the spirit tug at my heart, asking me to do the most simplest things, such as “do the dishes, smile at that person, go to this store, turn left, etc.” I’ve learned that it is in the small acts of obedience that you can prove your loyalty and diligence to the Lord.

6. Adventure is needed I think this is true for everyone. This past month has been hard for me. My daily routine consists of work, working out, eating, homework, sleeping and repeat.  Saturdays and Sundays I leave some time to clean up after myself (laundry, dishes, apartment cleaning), and to go to church, but most of the time I’m doing graduate work. Let’s just say that I was going bonkers. I wasn’t taking enough time to do the things that I love to do, which are to see, talk, and be around people. I needed to venture into the world and not shun myself from it. I’ve been working hard to cut out all of the unnecessary things in my life like watching Netflix or eating ice cream (Okay, maybe that’s not THAT unnecessary 😉

7. Life is short I know that this is cliche, but believe me. Never have I realized that life is moving quickly whether i’d like it to or not until now. I remember being a kid, waiting for my birthday to come in a month, and that month took FOREVER… but not now. Now in a blink of an eye it’ll be August 23rd,  and I will be 22 years old. This is helping me realize that every day is nothing in comparison of what is to come in eternity. Even those days when life is hard, know that there are greater things coming. Do all that you are called to do each day! Give it your all! Live life as if it were your last. Remember,  “For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever!” – Corinthians 4:17

If you read through all of this I applaud you! This is helping me process through my thoughts and record what I am learning 🙂 I’d love feedback if you have any!

-Shantal 🙂

La petite fille…

My name is Shantal Haboud. First name French, last name Lebanese.  I was born in Quito, Ecuador, a city escorted by high volcanoes and spring-like weather year round. For some reason I ended up in the smoggy and hot city of Riverside, CA.

Now a graduate student at California Baptist University, I can say that I have two passions in life: Jesus and people. I live my life to serve, love, and worship God. These two passions are what will keep me going in life, even though the future is a blur, there is not doubt in my mind that my life is in the hands of the creator of the universe.

My life is simple, as a graduate student there is not much I can do with my time other than work, eat, and sleep. I attend a church in Riverside, CA where we learn about authenticity in being real with ourselves, God and others. Through my time spent there, I have been challenged and enticed to love a God who loves me more than I could ever fathom.

Every day God is teaching me something new, therefore my goal is to share with you what God has the power to do through the life of an average girl.

1 Chronicles 16:8 ESV

“Oh give thanks to the Lord; call upon his name; make known his deeds among the peoples!”